Be wary of your expectations that a date will lead to sex. no one likes to be
taken for granted or pressured. For example, Tom met Lisa while she was on a
business trip in Florida. They hit if off, and he invited her back for a weekend
and even offered to pay for her trip. When she got there, he took her luggage
into his room. Lisa freaked out and was upset that he assumed she would be
having sex with him. The moral: Spell out your expectations, even if it seems
forward or kills the spontaneity. or better yet, don't have any expectations!