The Six Rules of Flirting
Besides just being a fun thing to
do, flirting can be an effective method for getting to know a
person. Remember the following anagram -- FLIRTS -- to help you get
the most out of flirting.
F is for Flattery. The
fastest way to a person's heart is to find something you truly
appreciate about the way that person looks or acts and then
compliment it. However, make sure your compliments are sincere
(there's no sense saying "You have beautiful eyes" when
they're obviously not).
L is for Listen. Get him to
talk about what he really cares about and listen attentively. The
most powerful aphrodisiac is your undivided attention.
I is for Interest. Find a
common interest. Remember, similar tastes and interests are the best
foundations for a good relationship.
R is for being Responsible.
Be truthful, careful, and clear about your interests and intentions.
Don't hurt or lead anyone on or choose inappropriate flirting
partners, such as your friend's boyfriend or girlfriend.
T is for Trusting yourself.
Believe that you can do it, survive it, and come out winning friends
and feeling good about yourself.
S is for a winning
Smile. The old saying is true. Smile and the whole world
smiles back at you.