Delivering the Compliment
Paying someone a compliment is not
as easy as you might think. Simply saying, "That's a nice
shirt" is not enough to spark an engaging conversation. To
deliver a compliment successfully, that is, to open the door for a
promising conversation, follow these steps:
1. Take note of the details. Do
Picking out something she is
wearing. This can include a piece of clothing or jewelry, or
even a hairstyle.
Noticing something about her --
her smile, her eyes, or her physique.
Paying attention to what he is
carrying. ("That's a beautiful leather case.")
2. Pay attention to what he is
doing. (You play a great game of pool" or "I notice that
you're careful about what you buy.")
3. Follow up with a question.
("Where did you find such an interesting piece of