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Using Sex to Get Love and Vice versa
Some people (admittedly more men than women) love the thrill of conquest and
will "work" the relationship until they get what they want. After
that, they lose interest. If you've ever been in this situation, you know how
easy it is to blame yourself -- for not being interesting, sexy, or attractive
enough. instead, recognize you were being used, and be wise to prevent it from
happening next time.
For example, Anita met a attractive guy in her class who flirted with her
shamelessly and wrote 'I love you' on her notebook. He called her a few times
and once they have phone sex. After that, he stopped talking to her. What's up?
It is very possible that this man either got what he wanted, or realized he
wasn't going to get exactly what he wanted, so he pulled away. Anita should be
glad this guy came and went so quickly. Also Anita should have take
responsibility for her own actions. After all, she engaged in sexual phone games
with a man she barely knew. As the saying goes, if you cast your net too wide,
you're bound to snag a few bad fish.
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