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The First Time
Sharing yourself sexually for the first time is an important step, and one
that should not be taken lightly. You will likely remember this encounter
forever, and it may influence your feelings about sex and love, so make sure
your first experience is a positive one. Let's say for Rachel who have a
fear of sleeping with the wrong person as she's only 26 and have never been
sexually active and she want it to be special. Well, the fear isn't necessary,
but her concern that the first time should be special is warranted. make sure
your first lover is considerate, caring, thoughtful, and giving. Be proud, not
ashamed, of being a virgin until then.
Men, too, have anxieties about their first time. For example, Barry who is 22
and is still a virgin. He met a girl who wants to have sex, but He's really
nervous. What should he do? It's natural to feel silly, embarrassed, or ashamed
about being inexperienced -- especially when you think everyone else is sexually
sophisticated. Don't try to pretend that you are experienced; share your
nervousness and appreciate your naiveté.
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