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The First Time
A caring partner will appreciate your honesty
and the opportunity to teach you. If not, walk away -- this is not a person to
trust with your intimate feelings.
You can eliminate some performance pressures by
talking together. Agree to take it slow, and that things may not be as great as
you both expect. Spend some evenings just exploring one another's bodies through
massage. Give each other feedback on where and how you like to be touched,
making a more natural flow into lovemaking.
Too many men and women express regrets to me
about their first time -- that they felt pressured into having sex, that it
wasn't special enough. Don't do it just to "get it (virginity) over
with." Think before you act, so you'll have no regrets later.
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