Saying No to Sex

Don't put yourself in compromising situations. If you have any doubts about a person, don't accept a date. but if you are out with someone who is more forward than your are comfortable with, make your feelings clear. You might even bring up the subject of sex in a very general way. For instance, mention that you heard something about casual sex on the radio or in the newspaper. State your opinions; put the issue right out on the table. For example, you might say, "I believe people should wait to have sex. They should care about each other. I'm simply not into casual sex." if your date becomes angry or loses interest, let him go. A person who doesn't respect your feelings on such an intimate issue is not someone to trust with your heart, body, or soul.

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