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How To Tell If S/he's Interested
Of course, the opposite of these would indicate more of a yellow light about
further contact. These warning signals indicate that things did not go well:
- Wanting to end the date earlier than planned
- Making no references to the future
- Returning non-enthusiastic responses to any mentions you make of future
contacts
- Displaying restrained body language that closes off contact (such as
crossed arms and legs, turning away, or hands over mouth or eyes)
- Showing little interest in what you are saying, and engaging in
restricted conversation beyond shyness
- Mentioning other relationships, indicating a desire to set up an excuse
about having another boyfriend or girlfriend
- Making references to being busy, having many commitments, or not being
interested in having a relationship (as a preparation for turning down further
dates)
- Being preoccupied with other things, such as fumbling with keys,
primping, looking away when it comes time to get into the car, or parting at the
door (times when some intimate contact could take place)
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