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To Kiss or Not to Kiss
Blatant sexual advances too early in the game -- especially if they are
unwanted -- are real turn-offs to most men as well as women. You must be really
sensitive about reading a person's openness to being intimate at all when it
comes to dating: Even a kiss can be a major step.
Before you get to the kiss, you must establish whether the person wants to be
touched. This is easy to tell, by reading body language. Crossed arms, standing
away from you, or retreating whenever you make an advance (to hold his hand or
put your arm around her) is a sure sign to back off. A green light about
welcoming any physical contact would include responding if you make a physical
contact of any kind (holding your hand tightly, touching your shoulder, putting
an arm around you, too).
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