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To Kiss or Not to Kiss

Of course, if the sparks are really flying between you, planting a surprise kiss or melting into a kiss after looking into each other's eyes will be the most natural thing, and you will not need to think about it. But if that does not happen, test responsiveness to physical contact by making a small gesture (kissing her hand) and seeing whether she smiles (a "yes") or pulls her hand away, frowns, or looks uncomfortable (a "no"). Try a hug and test the same responsiveness. Then, build up to a kiss on the lips by first kissing her neck, and then moving closer to her lips.

The kind of kiss will also depend on your instant attraction and passion. You will dive more into it wantonly if the intensity has already been built before you even touch. Otherwise, you might want to be more romantic and seductive, by kissing very lightly on the side of the mouth and building toward more direct lip contact and more openness. You will be able to tell if there is electricity between you to go further.

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