Being a Good Conversationalist

• Choose a subject that can lead to n engaging conversation (like your favorite movies, foods, travel destinations).
  
  
• Talk about things initially that are positive rather than what makes you mad, so your date will not think you are a complainer.
  
  
• Use words that are descriptive and rich in imagery (say "sparkling emerald" rather than just "green").
  
  
• Avoid slang and worn-out clichés ("you know," "like," "uh") that may be a habit but that are boring to hear and don't flatter you.
  
  
• Be provocative. Ask, "What's your dream for what you would most like to happen?" or "What do you think about the current controversy in the news about..." Or, talk about "My scariest experience growing up..."

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