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Deciding to Break Up
You know you are at a green light if your mate:
- Has positive, close, friendly relationships with family, friends and
co-workers.
- Is responsible and trustworthy.
- Is a good communicator (listens and empathizes).
- Is open to commitment.
- Can express feelings and be intimate.
- Displays respect for self and others.
You're at a yellow light when:
- You're been hurt by him before.
- Friends are giving you warnings or feeling you negative stories about
her, though you're not sure they're true.
- There is a history of bad relationships.
- You recognize in yourself a pattern of attraction such that you always
end up hurt.
- You fall in love too fast (without testing and observing).
- Either of you has a cheating past.
- The two of you are always talking about ex-partners.
- You spend too much time just "hanging out" without doing
anything meaningful.
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