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Positive/Negative signs
Warning signs it's not working out well:
- One of you makes all the approaches or invitations.
- One of you is always hesitant to make definite plans and leaves things
until the last minute.
- You get together only if there is nothing better to do.
- Some things your date says don't ring true.
- You find yourself being unnatural, playing games, or being dishonest.
- Dates are refused.
- He lies.
- She plays games.
- Dates are often broken.
- You get excited about meeting that new girl your friend wants to fix you
up with.
- You find yourself not feeling special or thinking, "He says that to
all the girls" or "She's the same way to every man."
- She seems unresponsive when you are together, or his attention to you is
inconsistent.
- He doesn't show any affection (holding hands, hugging).
- She is critical.
- Everything is on his terms (where you go, when you go out) and never at
your request.
- You don't "feel" any emotion from him -- or for him.
- He makes too many references to sex too soon.
The more these warning signs that apply, the less likely that you are truly interested in each other. Of course, it is
possible that other things are getting in the way, but generally, if many of
these signs are present, it is best to turn your attention elsewhere.
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