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Second Date and Beyond: Where to Go and What to Do
Where you go on subsequent dates, and what you do, should all be a natural
evolution of the basic principle of dating: getting a sense of each other and
how you both approach life. After all, if this relationship really develops into
a long-term one -- or even marriage -- you will be spending a lot of time, doing
many things, and taking care of many responsibilities together. Therefore, think
of various situations that would reveal how you are. For example, consider the
following:
- Vary who you're with. You will want to spend time alone, one-on-one, to
see how well you can relate to just each other, but also with other types of
people (friends, co-workers, family), to see how you each relate and get along
with others.
- Vary what you do. You will want to plan some activities, but you will
also want to spend unstructured time together, to see how you can entertain
yourselves without any specific activities to occupy or distract you, and also to
see how you make decisions together.
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