Ideas for Subsequent Dates

• Watch a video at home together. While I know this can be a popular suggestion for initial dates, I suggest saving that for later dates, because just coming over can imply some pressure about intimacy and trigger feelings (however unfounded) about not being "taken out and treated."
  
  
• Enroll in a class together. Learn drumming, dancing the tango, wine tasting, or computer skills. This will extend the contact you have together and imply to each other that you really want to make this an ongoing relationship.
  
  
• Get a massage together.
  
  
• Plan a short overnight trip. This can involve some activity (antiquing) or a sport (such as skiing, which involves preparation and time).
  
  
• Take a self-improvement course.
  
  
• Take him/her along on a convention trip.

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